Getting ahead

So this might be dumb....extra dumb actually.
So many things have changed and been stressful since I got up here to Washington.  I feel like I'm nonstop moving, but at the same time I feel like I barely accomplish anything.  School is falling apart, just - completely.  Which is so frustrating.  I took on far too much.  I don't want to let Matt and my mom down by not doing good this semester, but I am SUCKING.  It's awful.  I went from working my ass off to be on deans list last semester - to dropping 2 classes and still failing my biology class this semester.  I don't know how to handle it.  I'm almost 10K in debt, I'm not doing well, Matt and I will be moving AGAIN during the fall semester, the animals have needs, I have a full time job.  I have no idea how people do it.  I really don't.  Because I am falling apart at the seams.  And Matt will be so disappointed in me if I stop going to school.  I genuinely feel like I'm doing this for them and not myself.  Because I am ok with not having my degree- but Matt isn't ok with it and neither is Mom.  I just want something to go my way.  Maybe fall semester I'll only go part time - it'll extend my graduated but at the same time it will make keeping up good grades so much easier. 
And then there's this random baby fever that needs to go away.  I don't want a baby, but at the same time I do.  I want one bc I want to see Matt be a dad and have an awesome child together, but I know we shouldn't right now, and shouldn't until after his sea duty is over.  So I'm not going to be stupid about it; however, I'd really love this baby fever to go away.

Adjusting to nonstop moving

Is there any way to get use to nonstop doing things? I feel like my days just never have time to breathe.  I wake up, feed the pups, potty them, start school, go to work, come home to do a little more school work, cook dinner, go to bed, repeat. 
im so ready for a weekend and a break from all of this.

On top of that - I already am not doing very well in my classes.  I can't seem to catch up, let alone process it all to get a good grade.
Send help! Because I don't know how to balance it all.

Learning to be Married

You grow up thinking that when you get married there's going to be some magical feeling inside of you that appears when you say "I do".  For me, that just isn't how it worked.  Being married, has not changed much about our relationship.   We are still us, still learning how to live with each other, still adjusting to the habits of the other. It's a nonstop learning process.  Learning to be married is just like learning to be in a relationship; only you've committed to learning about one person and making your life with them.

Or maybe I've just completely lost my mind.